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Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Riders Up!

When I was going through treatment, Big T suggested I make a bucket list.  It was one of the many ways he tried to motivate me to keep fighting.  The derby was on the list.
We sat in the most perfect box...right at the finish line.  Friday at the Oaks was the day to wear pink.  The weather was beautiful, the fashions were so fun to watch and man, can those horses run.  They look so much faster in real life.
Saturday was another perfect day....with more of the same....
A little bit of this...

A little bit of that....
Too much of this....
Not enough of these :)...
Gorgeous horses and beautiful hats....
Love the peonies...
Cherry disco balls?
A teapot full of flowers....my favorite!



And now a treasured memory.




Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Derby Bound

Big T and I are headed up north to move B out of her freshman dorm room.  Friends, I am happy to report that she...and I....have survived her freshman year. Time flies, right?
After collecting B and C, we are headed to Louisville, to cross the Derby off my bucket list.  
Thank you, T and J, for letting us sit in your box!
Wish me luck...I am betting on number 4...I will tell you all about it when I return...


Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Bear Witness

I had tea this morning with a young woman living with cancer.  She is palliative.  I tried to say the right things, but there is not a lot of common ground....she wishes she was me, and I am afraid of being her.  It is such a difficult thing she is going through and I cannot fix it.  Nothing I can say will make it better.
As my dear friend, B, (a fellow survivor) says, "All we can do is be brave enough to just be with her in her suffering, tolerating our own layers of discomfort, and bear witness." 



Sunday, May 1, 2016

Home

Our boys were home this weekend.  Friends, is there anything better than when your chicks come back to the nest?  I really like hanging with these two.  
And I cannot even tell you how much I love my daughter-in-law.  How did T I get so lucky?
The only problem with them coming home is that of course they cannot stay....and I miss them even more when they go....Please tell me this part  gets easier eventually.

Thursday, April 28, 2016

Florida 2016 is Good

I had planned to visit my parents in Naples Florida in April of 2014.   I cancelled that trip because, even though my treatment was over, my body was not ready for travel.  It has taken a long, long time for me to recover, and I am not fully there yet.  But friends, I just spent 8 days down South...it was not perfect, but it was very very good.
 My parents have lived the last 25 winters golfing in the sun.  I love that C loves to be with them.  It's so good to see them so happy and healthy.
 C's best bud and her mom joined us for a few days.  What a delight! It is always good to meet new friends.
Sister 1 and 5 flew down to join us.  These two are all good all the time...and not bad at taking selfies either.
The next generation...C has some awesome cousins with way good sunglasses. 
This was my night to choose the restaurant. Bleu Provence is beyond good.  My absolute favorite in Old Naples.
After I dropped C off at the airport, these two where waiting for me in Siesta Key.  We have been friends for 25 years.  We had our babies together..need I say more?  So many good memories!
This is the view from my friend B's condo. B is a critical care nurse and fellow survivor.  When I was diagnosed, she made me promise to stay off the internet.  She told me every day during my treatment  that I would beat cancer.  Now she tells me every day that it won't come back.  As we watched the sun set over the Gulf, she reminded me again that life is good.

And, of course, the Sarasota restaurant report.  Columbia wins this trip.
  It is tough to beat superb Sangria, made table-side. The food is pretty darn good too.
These were waiting for me when I returned home. Sometimes it is good for Big T to miss me:)





Monday, April 18, 2016

Family History


 It is finally completely finished!  When I took this photo, I noticed....
these growing in the wall.  They always remind me, and all my sisters, of our grandmother.  
This genealogy  chart (i-chart-you.com) hangs in our kitchen.   I think it is important for our kids to know where they came from....and for B to know that her namesake loved violets.


C and I are headed to Florida tomorrow to meet up with Sisters 1 and 5 at our parents' home.  We can always count on our dad to share fond family memories of days gone by.  I am thrilled that C will be with me to hear...and remember.







Saturday, April 16, 2016

Read it

I just finished...it is absolutely incredible.
My favorite quote:
"The woman in the photo is a girl, really.  A thin, solemnly smiling girl....This smile, this careful, cautious smile, is the one that reflected my truest self; especially back when I was so young as to be unformed; afraid of everything because nothing truly terrible had happened to me yet."


In the middle of listening to "The Aviator's Wife", I had to reread her book.  My favorite quote:
"One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach.  One can collect only a few, and they are more beautiful if they are few."
This book spoke to me when I was a young mother, and it resonates even more to my more "experienced" self.
Actually, friends, this classic would be a great Mother's Day gift!